Nightly wheel action should open an issue if it fails

[ianhi]

Can we add an automated-issue-opening step for failures?

Originally posted by @dcherian in #10855

[ianhi]

Example code of action making an issue on failure step here: https://github.com/earth-mover/icechunk/blob/5a453d6009cadf227d9adffea51b820bc691ee15/.github/workflows/python-upstream.yaml#L97-L138

also includes some code for updating an existing issue first