querying with parameters hangs on mysql 8.0.25

[serprex]

Reproducible with: https://github.com/danielrmz/peerdb-mysql-test (run docker-compose up mysql25 & go run main.go)

Debugging, gets stuck waiting on reading results, after having received column info

[dveeden]

Any packet traces, logging or other details that might help?

[serprex]

unfortunately this came up before I was out for a week & have since been recovering, so I lack further info

with #1059 the issue instead becomes an empty result set instead of hanging

on our end we removed all use of params from our queries as a workaround