Separate option to cancel afk on chat from interact

[OmegaWeaponDev]

Re-upload of the #3680 pull request as github was being a pain and wouldn't get me commit to the PR for some reason.

Closes #3353

[mibby]

@JRoy This PR seems to make the AFK status change / message occur after a chat message is sent. Is there any possibility of moving this logic around so players go unafk first, followed by their message afterwards to match older Essentials behavior? Primarily to prevent someone returning from being AFK and immediately having their chat line thrown behind their afk status change one.

Here's a screenshot I found showing the old logic.

[JRoy]

@JRoy This PR seems to make the AFK status change / message occur after a chat message is sent. Is there any possibility of moving this logic around so players go unafk first, followed by their message afterwards to match older Essentials behavior? Primarily to prevent someone returning from being AFK and immediately having their chat line thrown behind their afk status change one.

Here's a screenshot I found showing the old logic.

Could you open a separate issue to track this? It's not that simple of a fix because this PR also fixed some unsafe concurrency issues so I can't just revert it.

PS: Can you reply to #3974 (comment) :P