chore(dpes): bump iroh-relay deps (#3547)

## Description

I've been going through our list of duplicate dependencies, and this
fixes two of them.

## Breaking Changes

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## Notes & open questions

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## Change checklist
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- [ ] Self-review.
- [ ] Documentation updates following the [style
guide](https://rust-lang.github.io/rfcs/1574-more-api-documentation-conventions.html#appendix-a-full-conventions-text),
if relevant.
- [ ] Tests if relevant.
- [ ] All breaking changes documented.
- [ ] List all breaking changes in the above "Breaking Changes" section.
- [ ] Open an issue or PR on any number0 repos that are affected by this
breaking change. Give guidance on how the updates should be handled or
do the actual updates themselves. The major ones are:
    - [ ] [`quic-rpc`](https://github.com/n0-computer/quic-rpc)
    - [ ] [`iroh-gossip`](https://github.com/n0-computer/iroh-gossip)
    - [ ] [`iroh-blobs`](https://github.com/n0-computer/iroh-blobs)
    - [ ] [`dumbpipe`](https://github.com/n0-computer/dumbpipe)
    - [ ] [`sendme`](https://github.com/n0-computer/sendme)

Author: Frando